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July 23rd, 2008 at 8:38 am
I came out at the age of 18 when I was admited to a RCF RCF Residential Care Felicity due to the fact of being caught with my younger brother jerking off.
You see my parents was going through a divorce and could not stand being in the same room with each other and I am going to explain or attemp to out myself to them.
I knew I had to do this knowing it was eating me up inside and I wanted to this to be over. When I attemped I thought I was THE ONLY one that was gay, remember there was no computers at the time and I did not want be bashed by others for announcing my situation to the wrong person. I was best friends at the time with my cousin JJ Jr I rehurst it in my mind many times before coming out and he was ok at the time with me being out. Next was mum with her she was not too happy with it but did not make a stick about it. I prolong telling it to my old man for yrs until one time when freak of nature a situation came up and I came to my grandmother house to bring to her attention about another matter a hand when i found out that my old man was there visiting his mother. I am one with no transportation and I be friend a guy that happen to be gay and he wanted to send our relationship a bit more then just friends and he kiss me and left lips stick smug on my lips. Will my old man saw a glims of it on my lips as wiz on by him in the apt. Will that was the beginning of WWIII. I was totally scared and unprepared to face this problem that my knees was buckling from under me. So I mustard all the stranght to handle this unexpected situation at hand. I did voice my concerns of myself coming out but my dad never saw me in the same light again shortly after that conversation he died two WK later.
inconclution
I promise myself three things
Never to married for that fact it was unfair to her knowing that i was gay from day one.
2) Never to have children due to the fact I did not want their lives to be condimed for having a gay father
3) be as supportive to the younger generation of gays that is stuggling and being confortable of the process of coming out to who every they widh to confront.
I want know there is never going to have child meaning (teenager) under my watch with out their support of coming to terms with there homosexuality to themself or announcing to the world. either way I am there to be supportive in any choice they feel is the right one to be.